From his talk at the West Hollywood Book Fair: (the short version)
1) Fuck college. Go to the library. Make your own college.
2) Love completely.
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Oct 02 2008
From his talk at the West Hollywood Book Fair: (the short version)
1) Fuck college. Go to the library. Make your own college.
2) Love completely.
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Jul 05 2008
I watched My Blueberry Nights last night finally. It is Wong Kar-Wai’s first English language movie. The movie opened the 2007 Cannes Film Festival, but did not see a US release until April 4, 2008. Because this is LA, and we actually get the Limited Release movies right away, I didn’t make it to see it in the theaters before it was gone. So I had to wait until this past Tuesdays DVD release.
In the tradition of many of his other films, this is a story of love. Wong Kar-Wai describes it as “a story of a woman who takes the long route instead of the short one to meet up with the man she loves.” (from wikipedia)
The movie is still shot in the way of his earlier films, despite the break from his long-time cinematographer Christopher Doyle. Full of sensuous colors and saturated hues.
The movie got very mixed reviews during its theatrical release…but I enjoyed it. The story was a little disjointed at times (moreso than usual), but that may be more of a symptom of writing in a second language (even though he co-wrote with a native english speaker). Norah Jones did a decent job acting, for her first time. The story behind her casting is that Wong Kar-Wai had her specifically in mind for the role and had to convince her to do the role.
Here is the UK trailer (embedding was disabled for the US version):
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Mar 10 2008
sunkissed clouds embrace
wind blowing through your absence
spring returns with you
more impressions of kindness can be found at the new community at one single impression (formally one deep breath)
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May 18 2007
The minute I heard my first love story
I started looking for you, not knowing
how blind that was.
Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere.
They’re in each other all along.
–Rūmī
I wonder if at times I am just guilty of hearing only what I want to hear. If perhaps I’ve been deceiving myself in my pursuit of some sort of meaningful relationship. That in my looking, I’ve become blind to love itself.
Over the past year it feels like I’ve been constently beaten down in this pursuit. I have to wonder if some of those bruises are self-inflicted. Am I ascribing feelings of love to feelings of lust? I fell for a couple different people this past year. Each time however fate seemed to have other things in store (pending moves were issues in both cases, though not by any means the only issues). I’m waiting for the day to arrive that the chorus of the Dire Straits song “Romeo & Juliet” will no longer be true.
Juliet, the dice was loaded from the start,
And I bet, then you exploded in my heart,
And I forget, I forget, the movie song
When you gonna realize, it was just that the time was wrong, Juliet?
Right now I am stuck in this paradox of extreme spring fever and an indifference towards relationships. I don’t need something completely serious…but I don’t want just a random hookup either. From experience, I know that the random hookup won’t make me any happier.
So I’m left with just faith. I believe, as Rūmī suggests, I will find what was in me all along. It brings me hope and with that hope I maintain at least some level of happiness. There are days that it is a struggle to believe in that hope and happiness. These days I rely on my faith and also on poetry. Sometimes what I need is time in prayer. Other times, the prayer comes through the poetry of others. Some days I just need to write. It doesn’t always make sense. It isn’t always poetry. It is just love. I don’t need to “understand” it. I just need to give myself to it. Without condition. Without requition. In many ways this has become my religion. Love and my faith in it.
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Mar 19 2007
For his friends, he gives everything.
Even when it is difficult or hurts.
It always amazes him when others don’t (even though he’s seen it time and time again).
It just seems so simple (even when it isn’t).
And so his heart is torn…between passion, friendship and love.
He wished to know her better, and now he does. He wonders if perhaps the passion will be muted. He steps away, as he feels he must, hopeful, yet expecting nothing.
He gave himself to the moments, worrying not about the past or the future (at least not much). He is thankful for those moments, for they were wonderful.
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Mar 18 2007
We just dropped my roommate off at the airport for her move to Japan. I’m really happy for her but I am sad to see her go. We managed to have a pretty good going away gathering for her Friday night. I got a keg of Rogue Hazelnut Brown and she invited over her friends for one last hurah. Most everyone showed up and seemed to have a good time. Lauren said she did and that was the most important part.
So already a little meloncholy, I return home this morning to recieve an email from Delta notifying me of a change in my itinerary to NYC next month. Our non-stop flight from PDX to JFK has been canceled and they’ve rerouted us through Atlanta. The problem is, now we’ve got an almost 4 hour layover in Atlanta and I won’t get up to NYC in time to drive up to New Haven to check out Yale as planned. Ugh…I guess one of Monday’s plans will be to call Delta and see if we can get an earlier second leg of the flight.
Girls are confusing the fuck out of me right now. I don’t yet have the words to explain it.
Can I have a redo on this weekend?
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Feb 13 2007
…there’s a rule I always follow when I don’t know what to do…If you have to choose between something that has form and something that doesn’t, go for the one without form. That’s my rule. Whenever I run into a wall I follow that rule, and it always works out. Even if it’s hard going at the time.
–from “Chance Traveler” by Haruki Murakami
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Nov 11 2008
Special Comment: Gay Marriage is a question of love
11 Nov, 2008
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